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ExoticOrchid - 14 Feb, 2025 - 03:09PM

mle - 12:25PM

Would love to answer your question but having no idea what you look like, impossible to ... 🤷🏻‍♀️

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marklondonengland - 14 Feb, 2025 - 12:25PM

Everyone ghosts me after meeting me once. Is it me or all of them?

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Purple dreamer - 14 Feb, 2025 - 08:17AM

My guess is they did not have the guts to say no thank you hopefully you will find the one

Optimistic Fella - 14 Feb, 2025 - 08:01AM

I’m so new here that maybe this is terrible advice but…if it’s not meant to be it’s not meant to be? Be yourself, enjoy the moment and trust that the woman with great chemistry for you is out there? (Unless yourself is a horrible person, in which case don’t do that ;) )

Fun Confidante - 14 Feb, 2025 - 06:42AM

Is the virtual kiss an underrated opener? Bear with me, I’m not idle, inarticulate, or into trawling the whole ocean in desperate hope. As it seems it is the men who tend to do the approaching (image of 1950’s dancehall intrudes….) at least that has been my experience thus far, after my extensive ‘research’ (ok, so it is four days) it can be a bit off putting to write and think about the person you’re trying to contact.
Let me explain, let’s say that you (full of eagerness, maybe a bit sweaty and self conscious in your 1950’s suit and dad’s brylcreem—we’re back in the dancehall) not only have to cross the floor but you have to do so knowing a little bit of info about the woman you like the sound of; or are intrigued by the look of—those tantalising pixelated public pics! More of them please. But you don’t have the benefit of a furtive come get me glance, or hair flick. You don’t know if they are even available. We should send kisses. Not a promise of virtual=reality just a let�

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Fergy69 - 14 Feb, 2025 - 12:39AM

It is very rude and ungracious for anyone to behave in such a manner. I have had it happen to me by a guy of high standing and expected high morals and standards. Oh, he is so not, a wolf in sheep’s clothing.

It is always best to be honest but courteous, and anyone who is not is best left on the sidelines forever.

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Welshchick69 - 13 Feb, 2025 - 10:47PM

Testingthewaters123

A very sweeping statement there !!

I have chatted with some wonderful men on this site but also encountered more than I can count who have got scared before meeting, or just vanished into thin air.

I’m sure there are many men (and women) who are genuinely ready and willing to have an affair. It’s just a matter of finding them .

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Testingthewater321 - 12 Feb, 2025 - 11:29PM

I wouldn’t worry yourself about it, majority of woman here have no idea what they actually want, fantasists and tyre kickers. You get the odd one who’s genuinely looking for a decent affair partner. Probably sounds negative but that’s realistic

Eleanor164 - 10 Feb, 2025 - 05:40PM

I'd say, make sure your profile photos are recent and true to reality. Upload both close face and full body pictures, so people can see how you look like. Be honest in your description and chats, just be yourself. If you have to change yourself to please somebody, then you would not enjoy that experience.
Last but not least, there is no justification for ghosting. That is simply a disrespectful, coward way of ending a conversation or relationship. Good luck with your next date.

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Paintednails - 05 Feb, 2025 - 04:12PM

Oh dear, this is sad to read. Display current photos so people don't have to get drunk for you to resemble your profile photos.
Don't rush to meet, have real conversations so you both can see, prior to meeting, if you really could get on. Meeting without prior conversations only to find you have nothing in common is the worst! Good luck