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Frankie87x - 06 Dec, 2024 - 08:44AM

I’m genuinely surprised at how many people thinking a photo pw request is a red flag. I’ve come back to 16 unread messages -I’m not going to have a long meaningful chat with all of them before knowing if I’m even physically attracted to that person. I’ll say thanks for the pw but I’m sorry, it’s not a match, best of luck and usually it’s gracefully received-I’ve also been called a picky wh**e for it…can’t please everyone

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Hugtastic - 05 Dec, 2024 - 03:22PM

Is it just me or are there numerous pic collectors who want to view you, but don't reciprocate even if it's a no thanks. Just plain rude, no manners. As for blocking immediately had that too and after an initially polite opening message.
Could understand it if someone was pestering you or level of unwanted messaging as thats what block/report is for but people need to seriously lighten up!
No doubt I'll get it in the neck for this too🤣

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Testingthewater321 - 04 Dec, 2024 - 11:59PM

I think you have to be attracted to your IE partner but I’m more into someone if their personality and attitude is right. I think there is so much superficial nonsense about looking good people pass by a brilliant opportunity to have an all round connection. You can be the best looking girl or guy here but if you aren’t mentally matched it’s irrelevant.

Paula99 - 04 Dec, 2024 - 08:13PM

Looks are somewhat important as they come under first impressions.. there has to be some visual appeal…if you are saying it doesn’t apply then your lying ..but looks are not everything..if you are not attracted to their personality/ demeanour then the person becomes unattractive…I have on dates with regular guys with a personality of a fence post 👎…I have also been on dates with guys that I wasn’t initially attracted to ….
Red flags are there for a reason …if the guy/lady asks you for your Pw in the first instance that should give you an indication that he/she requires someone to make them look good 🙄

Clickable Connection - 04 Dec, 2024 - 06:50PM

I'm actually finding this thread quite funny.

Ok so I do agree , instant password requests are most definitely a red flag - male of female.

However ....... For those pretending that looks are not a factor .... please!!! We want to be attracted to our IE partner - that attraction comes in many forms, but physical attraction is most definitely one of them, at least as a initial indicator. It's not everything, but to say it's not even a consideration, is probably abit disingenuous IMO.

Also given that most folks , men and women ask for a password early on ...I'd say that's a good indicator of what most think about looks.

Like I said it's not everything, but it's a consideration - and yes instant password requests huge red flags

Let the back lash begin 😂😂

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Werewolf - 04 Dec, 2024 - 06:29PM

this site and life can be the same, how many times in life have we engaged in conversation based on a situation or he/she looks nice only to discover during conversation you are not going to be a match in or out of the bedroom, so red flag wise it could be nailed to the top of their head or hidden in a wallet it is up to us to spot them.

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Organic Basket of Plums - 04 Dec, 2024 - 08:46AM

Bemused as to why many of the contributors on this thread seemingly find the need to even look at or request endless quantities of passwords.

If the profile is complete and well written
then you have the knowledge and character of the individual concerned
The fun is then in the discovery and the date.

I would suggest than anybody who has say requested more than 10 password reveals is possibly suffering with totally unrealistic expectations and should question reevaluate how open minded they are or would be better suited to a site of a different nature.

Get to know the person
and be honest…

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ExoticOrchid - 03 Dec, 2024 - 11:07PM

I would just like to point out that some gentlemen here seem to be confusing certain types of "ladies" (I use the term loosely) with genuine ones!

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Paula99 - 03 Dec, 2024 - 07:00PM

Magic Mouse 321…

I am sure if the situation was reversed and women had to pay them the men would ‘milk’ it ..

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MagicMouse321 - 03 Dec, 2024 - 06:34PM

Totally agree with you CheriePie…and all the subsequent comments.

(Those that ask for your password then disappear 🫥 are the worst)

What I’d add is that in men’s’ defence, we are charged to use the site so there is instantly an urgency applied as there’s a deadline looming.

Women are on the contrary no charge and happy to take their time, and disappear for a week or three 🤷‍♂️

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