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SirrahNek - 03 Dec, 2024 - 05:20PM

A presumption that I should have to pay, or that the woman concerned needs to be looked after is a turn off. I mean, yes, I almost certainly will try to pay - but that shouldn't be taken for granted, and the relationship should be based on equality, mutual respect and understanding.

A presumption that the ultimate relationship is a sexual one is also a turn off (paradoxically). There has to be something first, a foundation to build on.

Enigma.. - 03 Dec, 2024 - 01:01PM

CC…

I’m always polite and apologise and will say that they are not what I’m looking for.
I’ll wish them all the best and good luck 🍀.

True it does go both ways.
But surely males/females can come up with a more original first message than “what’s your photo password”??
Just makes them, in my eyes, judgemental, looks oriented and not the type of person I’d be willing to get to know 🤷🏼‍♀️.
Also some people don’t take getting a thanks but no thanks very well 🫤.

But why after messaging someone and saying you are not interested only to, a few days a week etc… down the line, get back in touch with them.
Comes across as pretty desperate to me 🫤.
I don’t block anyone without a good reason.

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glassesman - 03 Dec, 2024 - 10:35AM

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Cherrypie am so with you on that looks mean very little in my experience .It is only after several conversations that I would want to swap passwords although if we were getting on well pictures would not make a scrap of difference

Clickable Connection - 03 Dec, 2024 - 08:02AM

Cheery pie
I'm with you on the whole password thing - but again it goes both ways. Lots of ladies , ask for password, then don't here from them again - sometimes even block you.

Come on peeps , treat others how you like to to be treated. Simple thanks - but no thanks is all it needs.

Yes I know there are guys out there who will give you shit for it, but then that's a reason to block lol. But blocking someone just because you don't have the balls to say no thanks - well just not right in my book.

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Enigma.. - 03 Dec, 2024 - 06:39AM

Cherrypie12345

I have been saying the same thing for some time now.
If anyone sends me “what’s your photo password?” As a first message I just hit the delete button.
Why? Well I think it’s blindingly obvious why 😂🙄😏🤷🏼‍♀️🚩.
I never go first when exchanging photo passwords and if that’s a problem then pass on by lol 😉.
I’ve had my share of you’re not my type, you’re not what I’m looking for or you look like my sister, ex wife, cousin etc… 🙄😂🤷🏼‍♀️.
And what you have posted is true…
Once all the other options have run out they’ll come crawling back 😂🙄😉🤷🏼‍♀️😏.

Cherrypie12345 - 02 Dec, 2024 - 09:45PM

For me it's when the 1st message is Password please! Now I'm pretty upfront with my profile and what you see is what you get so I know someone wanting my password pic so early isn't going to match with me! So pass me by!

Don't even get me started on the ones asking for passwords and then not coming back with their own even though they have looked at yours......even worse are the ones that come back days or weeks later as they can't find anything better

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laugar164 - 02 Dec, 2024 - 07:05PM

Seductedlol

Maybe you nor ready to have an affair and complaining about paying the membership will only put genuine lady's off
Just my thoughts

1725148 - 02 Dec, 2024 - 11:23AM

Some of these aren’t red flags, kinda minimising it. Imo.

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DeeperThings - 02 Dec, 2024 - 09:59AM

AI generated profiles. Suggest laziness or lack of intelligence to me.

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Clickable Connection - 02 Dec, 2024 - 08:47AM

Talking of red flags ..... Mention of sugar or they want a generous man , in their profile

Yes I get some guys like to pay / buy their way to having what they think is an affair. Call me stingy , call me old fashioned - but I prefer to get my ladies affection in other ways

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