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1757504 - 14 Mar, 2025 - 04:43PM

Great question, and absolutely no idea! 😂 I’m also new at this & struggle with the non face to face nature of this communication, there are no non verbal cues which would direct any ‘chat up line’ or introduction, and equally direct you away from even bothering simply by observing characteristics & social behaviour etc.
I do wonder if the timing of whatever is said initially is the most influential factor & relies entirely on luck by virtue of respective mindsets at time of making 1st contact…
Who knows, but this malarkey is a flippin’ minefield that’s for sure! Good luck everyone!

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Paula99 - 14 Mar, 2025 - 02:59PM

SirrahNek..

It was just a joke …lighten up 😊

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SirrahNek - 14 Mar, 2025 - 02:44PM

Paula99

weather/politics and religion - dear god no! And sex seems a bit forward, even here!

Paula99 - 14 Mar, 2025 - 02:21PM

There aren’t any chat up lines anymore …you might as well talk about the weather/politics and religion 🙄

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Jellybean1980 - 16 Feb, 2025 - 06:43PM

Good humour rather than chat up lines work well, but definitely avoid the standard "hey" or "hi". It doesn't have to be an essay though x

ExoticOrchid - 16 Feb, 2025 - 03:45PM

Middle of the Road!!! 🎵🎶

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1743108 - 16 Feb, 2025 - 08:47AM

Be like water…


@Purple dreamer

Chirpy!!….Chirpy!!!…


cheep, cheep.

1730254 - 13 Feb, 2025 - 01:08PM

It can be really tough as the first message is pretty much the only chance you get to generate interest and start a conversation.

Try to be honest and open. Talk about specific items on their profile and how they relate to your own interests and experiences. A good and relevant subject line can sometimes be an advantage in getting your message noticed (you really don’t want a blank subject or just “hello”)

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Purple dreamer - 13 Feb, 2025 - 09:06AM

Just say what you want but chirpy is always good

Enigma.. - 12 Feb, 2025 - 10:26AM

MagicMouse321

Those are cheesier than the strongest cheddar lol 😂😉