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What are the best chat up lines?

Hi,

I'm new here and I'm torn between sending a catchy chat up line or something a bit more personal. Any advice which works best? 

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Hanson04 - 14 Mar, 2025 - 05:15PM

Hi there, I am new here. So would like to say hello to everyone

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1757504 - 14 Mar, 2025 - 04:43PM

Great question, and absolutely no idea! šŸ˜‚ I’m also new at this & struggle with the non face to face nature of this communication, there are no non verbal cues which would direct any ā€˜chat up line’ or introduction, and equally direct you away from even bothering simply by observing characteristics & social behaviour etc.
I do wonder if the timing of whatever is said initially is the most influential factor & relies entirely on luck by virtue of respective mindsets at time of making 1st contact…
Who knows, but this malarkey is a flippin’ minefield that’s for sure! Good luck everyone!

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Paula99 - 14 Mar, 2025 - 02:59PM

SirrahNek..

It was just a joke …lighten up 😊

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SirrahNek - 14 Mar, 2025 - 02:44PM

Paula99

weather/politics and religion - dear god no! And sex seems a bit forward, even here!


Paula99 - 14 Mar, 2025 - 02:21PM

There aren’t any chat up lines anymore …you might as well talk about the weather/politics and religion šŸ™„

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1725764 - 16 Feb, 2025 - 06:43PM

Good humour rather than chat up lines work well, but definitely avoid the standard "hey" or "hi". It doesn't have to be an essay though x


ExoticOrchid - 16 Feb, 2025 - 03:45PM

Middle of the Road!!! šŸŽµšŸŽ¶

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1743108 - 16 Feb, 2025 - 08:47AM

Be like water…


@Purple dreamer

Chirpy!!….Chirpy!!!…


cheep, cheep.


1730254 - 13 Feb, 2025 - 01:08PM

It can be really tough as the first message is pretty much the only chance you get to generate interest and start a conversation.

Try to be honest and open. Talk about specific items on their profile and how they relate to your own interests and experiences. A good and relevant subject line can sometimes be an advantage in getting your message noticed (you really don’t want a blank subject or just ā€œhelloā€)

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Purple dreamer - 13 Feb, 2025 - 09:06AM

Just say what you want but chirpy is always good

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