Attractiveness is...
Men, what do you find attractive in a female? Fashion, makeup, figure, looks, personality?
Women, what do you find attractive in a man? Suits, casual, formal, hair, height, size, personality?
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boav91 - 04 Jan, 2025 - 07:30AM
I think we are all initially attracted to a type we have in our minds. This will differ from person to person. On this site I have had both responses. Some not their type and others, yes I think you look good. The eye of the beholder really does count. Personally I am not one for loads of make up and prefer a natural look. I am not big so prefer my opposite to be similar. I a, not gong to lie and say looks are unimportant , but they are not the only thing.
As for personality, if you want something that can be sustained over a long time you need to meet someone you actually like, can stimulate your mind , can be a friend as well or you will get bored very quickly.. you don’t need to worry about that if you only want a ons but some of us prefer long term so personality then does count.
The key is we are all different . I think we stereotype far too quickly and in reality it is all about different strokes
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Jonno1570 - 03 Jan, 2025 - 02:22PM
There has to be a connection no doubt.
I’m new on here and struggling where to pitch the opening message. Clearly you don’t go in all hung ho but being pleasant initially seems to get no response either!
A woman that doesn’t just reply with half a dozen words would be attractive for a start 😂
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justme272 - 03 Jan, 2025 - 02:22PM
This is quiet a open question as I'd go as far as to say everyone is different, for me personally I have to be attracted to the person, so looks are the first thing, that can be made up of several things, clothes, make, figure. But I even if I like teh looks for me, I'm not going to want to jump into bed with a piece of wood, I want a connection, so personality plays a big part.
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Forlorn66 - 03 Jan, 2025 - 01:01PM
@Exotic Orchid
I'm guessing you've had some bad experiences? Believe it or not, there are actually men out there that do care about personality.
Don't get me wrong, I guarantee that 99% of men have a reaction to the superficial at first, it's male nature but some can actually start thinking with their head and not being lead around by their genitals.
If someone is truly interested in the little things, I guarantee that they aren't bothered about a one and done, they want to please you. It may not be as exciting as getting into sex talk etc straight away but it's true. Please don't paint us all with the same brush.
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Clickable Connection - 03 Jan, 2025 - 12:37PM
ExoticOrchid - 03 Jan, 2025 - 11:07AM
Can't speak for other guys , but I can definitely speak from my own experience. I've dated some women who are nothing but tits and bums - but if they didn't have the personality, I loose interest very quickly - it's happened on one than one occasion.
Having done this for awhile , I know what works for me - and it goes way beyond their physical appearance
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Delicious Chaos - 03 Jan, 2025 - 12:16PM
EO
Haha I’m humouring the man. Of course I don’t lol
I’m sure he’s after brownie points ;-)
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