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Here we go 693 - 03 Jan, 2025 - 11:06AM

Definitely personality and chemistry. I actually find women of all shapes and sizes attractive, but what generally gets me going is having the connection with them.

Shallwehavecoffee - 03 Jan, 2025 - 11:03AM

I think how I find a woman attractive is when someone feel comfortable and confident in how they look.

But I do appreciate we will always be unhappy about something, being comfortable with it speaks volumes

Clickable Connection - 03 Jan, 2025 - 10:55AM

To me attractiveness is how someone holds themselves, their facial expressions, their level of engagement with you , that lingering eye contact.

A smile that lights up the room , someone you can get lost in and wonder where the time went

All of this wrapped in a personality that you instantly connect with and can't get enough of.

Yea there's got to be some level of physical attractiveness for sure , but it's not all tits and bums for me - it goes well beyond that.

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Anthony1953 - 03 Jan, 2025 - 10:48AM

Drop dead gorgeous?
Maybe for some, not for me, it is the person that matters and sometimes that takes a while to discover, unless you make such a 'pigs ear' as I did recently by simply being nervous and saying all the wrong things. Still learning

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Forlorn66 - 03 Jan, 2025 - 10:26AM

It's definitely a personality thing for me but obviously there has to be a physical attraction too.

To me, the biggest thing is finding out what makes someone tick and seeing someone's personality shine through. You can be the most beautiful woman on the planet but if there's nothing behind the physical, it's pointless. The connection has to be there.

I haven't been here long but I've been surprised by the trepidation I feel when messaging someone who I'm clicking with, it's quite alluring.

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glassesman - 03 Jan, 2025 - 09:37AM

For me looks really are not relevant .I had a lengthy affair with a lady from here she was plump with incredibly thick glasses but what a great lady sadly she died .She was a lovely lady and she loved me .I suppose if a lady likes me thats one huge aphrodisiac so really looks do not matter a lovely smile is a huge asset .As regards make up not really and high fashion not relevant

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Delicious Chaos - 03 Jan, 2025 - 09:16AM

Tomkeating

I applaud you, I’m expecting most men to say tits and arse!

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1738681 - 03 Jan, 2025 - 08:40AM

Personality over everything. Although I do find myself leaning towards females that take care of themselves, are natural and have a keen eye for fashion. I find this more attractive than just looks

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