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Paula99 - 29 Mar, 2025 - 06:07AM

Forest737…

Your post made me think about a friend from years back …he had an affair and he regularly visited a mistress ( she provided various kinks as a business venture) she is what is known as a Dominatrix …his kink was to be feminised aka dressed up as a woman …full make up/wig etc etc…he couldn’t tell his wife and children as clearly it would have been world war 3 in his house….like you said he separated his kink from his home life and learned to live with it…..10 years on he became a grandad and decided to leave his old life behind ….the mistress part I get 😊

EmnEm123 - 28 Mar, 2025 - 08:31PM

Forest737

Having a "mistress" doesn't mean that you can't be rejected or that she would be willing to partake in your kinks.

It sounds like you want to treat an affair partner like a piece of meat for your own pleasure, I don't think that was what they OP was getting at.

I could be wrong but I don't think that most people here are looking for an affair to satisfy kinks, it's for what's missing in their lives, intimacy and sex.

It sounds like you think a "mistress" is a free escort.

Forest737 - 28 Mar, 2025 - 03:21PM

Who doesn't love a mistress, relationships are hard as it can be hard to open up about your kinks in the fear of rejections. It's good to have them separate that works best for me thays for sure especially if you find 1 person that you can fulfil your kinks

Loverbull - 27 Mar, 2025 - 11:01AM

I can’t fault you, you’re not hurting anyone and as long as the men in your life know where they stand, what’s the problem. If you live in Yorkshire I would love to hear from you.

Doubleohseven - 22 Mar, 2025 - 11:22AM

....and I omitted smaller things (creating music list, finding the right bubble bath, flowers, whatever)!

For the right IE, I do just love it ❤️❤️

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Cheryl Kim - 22 Mar, 2025 - 11:19AM

Affair events planner could be a potential thriving sideline for the ‘turkish barber’ up the high street - throw in a free hair cut and hot towel shave while we’re at it 💈

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Siwalk - 22 Mar, 2025 - 11:09AM

As long as your happy that's all that matters

ExoticOrchid - 22 Mar, 2025 - 10:37AM

So the perfect man to be a mistress to would be a money launderer ... anyone here? 🤔🤫

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Paula99 - 22 Mar, 2025 - 10:30AM

Hmmmmm….sounding a little Mipaulac there ..Doubleohseven …you will be doing it in the back of a van before you know it … 😂

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Paula99 - 22 Mar, 2025 - 10:12AM

Doubleohseven…

Don’t you just love it 😏

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