When do you know……?
It is so difficult reading between the lines of text messages. Ladies, how do we guys know you are interested, or just being friendly? What vibes should we be looking out for, and what kind of responses strike a balance between being keen back but not disrespectful?
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Paula99 - 20 Dec, 2024 - 03:58PM
Making excuses like women getting more messages and looking for Mr Perfect tells me a lot about the person behind the post …
As I said before no one likes a winger ..🙄
Three Little Words - 20 Dec, 2024 - 03:03PM
@TallAndSpicy
Yes, this happens to me as well. More than a few times I’ve had a couple of nice messages from a lady only for them to go suddenly quiet or just say “Sorry you’re not my type” and then blocked me to stop any further discussion.
Roll with the punches.
Tallandspicy - 20 Dec, 2024 - 01:11PM
Believe me it’s difficult for us men. You engage in what you think is interesting conversation, only to find that one wrong word, or a comment that has been misconstrued, and BANG…….the conversation is over! And the reason?…….Ladies receive probably 1000% more messages than men do…….so they just move on to try and find “Mr Perfect”………..and ladies if you hadn’t already realised, he doesn’t exist! 🧐
marklondonengland - 20 Dec, 2024 - 12:30PM
It's almost as if some people need a manual on how to start a conversation or how to be interesting...
Three Little Words - 20 Dec, 2024 - 12:05PM
If a woman asks questions, shows an interest and generally talks in a way that keeps the conversation flowing then I consider that she’s interested.
If these replies are closed in nature and don’t really lead anywhere then I know she’s just answering out of politeness or isn’t interested.
Paula99 - 19 Dec, 2024 - 02:31PM
Some members will answer your messages …the majority don’t …we can’t always engage with everyone on here..there aren’t enough hours in the day ..take everything with a pinch of salt and try not to get would up about petty things …
No one likes a winger ….🙁
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Enigma.. - 19 Dec, 2024 - 10:43AM
Jessica…
Wow… 30+ messages per day.
That’s probably because you live in or around a large city.
I live a small town about 35 miles south west of Glasgow.
I’ll be lucky if I get 7-10 messages in a week lol.
Most of those are usually from males who are not within reasonable travelling distance or outwith my lower and upper age limits 🙄🫤.
1725148 - 19 Dec, 2024 - 10:16AM
Just chat, normally, relaxed, calm, and if it goes somewhere, great, if not, oh well, just don’t be one of those whiney arses, complaing and crying about the cost and no replies and blah, blah, f*ckin blah!!
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JessicaRampantRabbit - 18 Dec, 2024 - 09:17AM
Hi guys. Reading through some of the other comments, I can see it is hard for you. Obviously, I don’t get much contact with the girls on here, so only really knew what I did.
Hopefully a few helpful thoughts:
1. Admin. Not sure about other women, but I get a LOT of messages, often 30+ individuals messaging per day! Realistically, I can’t build or maintain a relationship with that many people. So, basically if I message back at all, I’m probably interested!
2. Intentions. I have a loving relationship…with my husband! I’m here for something naughty and outside of this, so if you’re looking for a soulmate, friend, penpal, I’m probably not going to engage. I’ve tried to be clear on my profile about this, so maybe take in what girls are saying. Looking at the other replies, I accept some girls don’t operate like this!
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