When will I see you again?
I have met 4 beautiful ladies in the past few months since joining IE. I enjoyed all my meets enough to have a second date but have subsequently been ghosted and rejected by all of them. I have another first meet arranged next week. What can I do to increase my chances of a second meet and hopefully a longer term IE?
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SirrahNek - 24 Feb, 2025 - 11:38AM
Way back before I got married I got used to dates that went nowhere - I didn't expect every date to lead to a relationship. Sometimes you just have a nice evening, and then that's it - compatibility is not guaranteed. It takes all sorts.
One of my best dates ever (which led to serial one night stands with the same woman, ONS because we weren't committing to each other) was in a London bar where I hadn't clicked with my date, and she hadn't clicked with hers. So we swapped. And it shouldn't have worked because were very different with few shared interests. But we made each other laugh. And that, sometimes, is enough.
Paula99 - 18 Feb, 2025 - 02:37PM
Bruce 298 …
If that’s what your preferences are …I wouldn’t be concerned…at least you are straight up….most guys say they want more than a ONS but it rarely happens…..you might get a Brucey Boner and Dolly dealer if you play your cards right 🃏
Bruce298 - 18 Feb, 2025 - 01:34AM
Am I going against the train in that I would prefer a one off meet and slide back into the darkness. Helps with discretion
Jellybean1980 - 14 Feb, 2025 - 08:21PM
For me, personally I would prefer an actual phone chat, voice note or even a video call before going out on that first meeting. I think it gives you a better idea of who you are actually meeting.
It goes without saying that it helps to be yourself from the start, have up to date images of yourself on your profile, and focus on that one person.
I am sorry you have been ghosted though as that is not nice to deal with especially when you have taken the time and effort to meet someone. I guess it depends what happened on the date and how it all played out?
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Vanilla770 - 14 Feb, 2025 - 06:38PM
Do you look like your photos? Honestly? Or is it a photo from 10+ years ago? Both sexes are guilty of this I imagine but there is no point trying to lure someone in with a false promise of your age/appearance. Happened to me!
Paula99 - 14 Feb, 2025 - 05:50PM
To quote the phrase ‘ most of the women have no idea what they want fantasists/tyre kickers ‘etc etc…not really sure that’s entirely true …tarring us with the same brush only has a negative impact and generally ruffles my feathers…but tit for tat isn’t my thing ….both sexes are guilty of a lot more…but regardless of what you think if there is an action you will get a reaction and some posts are designed to ‘poke the bear’ ( figure of speech)
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Scrappymog - 14 Feb, 2025 - 04:46PM
When will I see you again?
When will we share precious moments?
Will I have to wait forever?
Will I have to suffer? (Suffer)
And cry the whole night through…
Hah, hoooooo…
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Delicious Chaos - 14 Feb, 2025 - 03:28PM
Testingthewater123 ‘tyre knickers’ not sure I’ve heard that expression before. Care to share. Yes you are correct there a lot of females who have no intention of meeting anyone in person and just love the ego boost. However there are also men and whilst I don’t think they are on here for an ego boost just haven’t thought about the practicalities of an affair and go awol.
There are wasters of both sex on here. I personally think females should at least play a small fee then maybe that would narrow it down, although saying that men pay a lot of money to be here and still waste time
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ExoticOrchid - 14 Feb, 2025 - 03:13PM
FC - 06:42AM
Personally, I don't have a problem with VKs or VGs ... it makes me aware of their profile and their interest ... I can then decide if I want to interact with that person or not.
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