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Scrappymog - 27 Feb, 2025 - 02:00PM

There’s no rush, chill out.

EmnEm123 - 26 Feb, 2025 - 04:33PM

Man Alive

I forgot to add, I looked at your profile, I thought it was good. Have a little patience, you'll be fine. Good luck! 🤞

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EmnEm123 - 26 Feb, 2025 - 04:18PM

Man Alive

I wouldn't bother with a second message under those circumstances either. If they can't even give your profile a cursory glance, what's the point.

Of course, you'll get those questioning what type of messages you're sending. I think it doesn't have to be an essay, a polite hello to open a conversation is fine for me, if I like the profile I'll message back, if not I usually send a polite no thanks.

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Man_Alive_2025 - 26 Feb, 2025 - 03:19PM

Eminem 123 yes, that’s what I said. If they look at me I never send a second message

But when you message and they don’t look at your profile what are the thoughts on sending a follow up? I never do send a second message if I don’t get a response to my first…

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EmnEm123 - 26 Feb, 2025 - 02:52PM

Man Alive

If you've messaged and the recipient has viewed your profile without messaging back, they're not interested.

There is no point in sending a second message, move on.

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Man_Alive_2025 - 26 Feb, 2025 - 02:41PM

I always assume if I’ve messaged someone and they’ve looked at my profile but not responded then they’re not interested. I haven’t quite yet worked out what I should do if I message and they’ve looked don’t look at me without sounded needy. What’s good way of starting that difficult second message?

Bikerdude69 - 25 Feb, 2025 - 04:24PM

Depends on where they are from, I live in Manchester and have loads of messages from ladies in London, is it just me or does anyone read profiles

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HotMess2025 - 25 Feb, 2025 - 03:34PM

If its meant to be, you will msg at the same cadence and energy, as there will be mutual interest.

If you message and don't get a reply, ping another after a few days, no response then move on. You need to value yourself at the end of the day and chasing someone that isnt interested is just incel material not a grand pursuit

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blackindulgence - 25 Feb, 2025 - 02:24PM

Hello all. First time on this Forum. Whats happening? or should I read through the history to get up to speed?

tmn2024 - 25 Feb, 2025 - 01:32PM

@Paula99 I'm actually not sure what point you were trying to make, but I didn't see anyone other than yourself use the term "entitled princesses". I am a very mannerly person and your attempt to make some kind of claim that I am not will never make me unmannerly.

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