Standard Membership
As a standard member you can:
Gold Membership
As a Gold member you can do all of the above, plus:
Gold Plus Membership
As a Gold Plus member, you can do all of the above, plus extra features:
As a standard member you can:
- Search for members (and appear in searches)
- Receive messages, Say Hellos and Virtual Gifts
- Send Say Hellos and Virtual Gifts
- Complete a fully written profile
- Upload photos
Gold Membership
As a Gold member you can do all of the above, plus:
- Read messages from other members
- Send messages to other members
- Hide your profile from ‘Who’s Online’
Gold Plus Membership
As a Gold Plus member, you can do all of the above, plus extra features:
- Holiday Mode - suspend your profile for up to 3 weeks
- Invisible Mode - hide your profile from Searches
- Auto-responders - create responses that are automatically sent when you receive a message
- Prepared Responses - create prepared responses to send to other members
- Custom Panic Button
- Live Alert when your favourites come online (not on smartphones or tablets)
- Live Alert when your message has been read (not on smartphones or tablets)
- Live Alert when someone is reading your profile (not on smartphones or tablets)
- Live Alert when a new match joins the site (not on smartphones or tablets)
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Warning: not everyone is suited to having an affair. They are not an alternative to working on or ending a marriage. Not all affairs have a positive effect on a marriage, some can be very damaging. Always consider other people and if you are going to have an affair, please select your partner wisely.