Comments (192)

tea_coffee_me_ - 16 May, 2020 - 03:38PM

"PecanPie -
Often think some single guys / or ladies on here just want to experience being with a married person as they often say “ it’s not hassle to maintain the relationship “"
Many of us have .... many were married, I know I was, and I worked bl**dy hard at my marriage however its impossible when only one person is...

I am here as THERE IS NO DATING LIFE for someone of my age and circumstances.
(It was an IE person that recommended me to it!!)
I doubted there was anyone out there for me... cough years later my friends are finally believing me.

Some people here married or single SHOULD NOT BE HERE every person here to reduce the risk of harm to themselves and others, needs to be in a certain place mentally.

Some married / single / fe /male people, their heads are NOT in the right place AND should NOT be here.
Some married / single/ fe /male people are ideal for this site.

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1367873 - 16 May, 2020 - 03:35PM

Sometimes reading comments on here is way more entertaining than adding one 😂

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1371036 - 16 May, 2020 - 03:30PM

Sod this anyone fancy a pint? 😉

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tea_coffee_me_ - 16 May, 2020 - 03:21PM

"PecanPie - like the story of the old lady and the bag of bones. "

I am sitting comfortably, (with a coffee), you may begin :-)

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1383637 - 16 May, 2020 - 03:11PM

If you're being "judged" by someone, there is an easy solution to your first world problem..

Use the block button...problem solved

NAI.
Enjoy the weekend.

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1117169 - 16 May, 2020 - 03:01PM

@Thumos

There definitely are quite a few " Professional girlfriends" on here as you diplomatically and euphemistically call them, and not just in London.

You can easily spot them because they are usually in their 20s or 30s, specify an unrealistic age range ( 21-70!), talk about wanting " The finer things in life", being "Wined and dined" and " Wanting to be spoiled" and list their interests as "Shopping" 😉

I'm not sure they should be on here really.

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851951 - 16 May, 2020 - 02:51PM

Pecan pie
Exotic Orchid was correct in what she was saying...just own it Pecan 🤔🙄

ExoticOrchid - 16 May, 2020 - 02:01PM

Ooops ... looks like I have hit a raw nerve there! 🤔😂

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PecanPie - 16 May, 2020 - 01:50PM

Hey @ExoticOrchid... it’s ok to filter the rest of my statement to make you sound intelligent but if u can read the statement that follows, it explains. Yes I am married and I am cheating, and I am on a site for married people looking for affairs, isn’t that obvious?
I realise you are one of the single ones here so I can understand this thread is touchy and it applies to you like the story of the old lady and the bag of bones. Goodluck in your sojourn.

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Thumos - 16 May, 2020 - 01:42PM

To be fair, I've found over the years (yes, I pop by here from time to time!) that there is a small but significant minority of single women here.

When I've asked why, the answer has almost always been along the lines that it's more honest & open here, and less hassle.

I make a bit of an exception for London, where there seems to be a further subset of younger women who seem to be setting themselves out as 'professional girlfriends'.

As White Sage says, you can always tweak your marital status. I personally would have suggested divorced or separated, rather than married, but I don't think it really matters that much.

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