Comments (192)

Kentotk - 03 Dec, 2024 - 09:35AM

Anyone who is playing away has no right to comment on the reasons or circumstances of another's position. If that were the case then 'let he who is without sin...'

I have a platonic relationship after my wife admitted her libido has just died - mine has not though I cannot suggest to her that I go outside our marriage, that would just not work and break us - something I do not want to do to my best mate.

That said, whilst looking around for an affair, I want something specific and more adventurous - should I be judged and commented upon for my hidden proclivities?

1725148 - 03 Dec, 2024 - 09:07AM

Very deep, Deeper.

DeeperThings - 03 Dec, 2024 - 08:40AM

The heart desires what the heart desires

Onekissmore - 11 Jan, 2024 - 03:38AM

It’s what works for you as partners in crime.
If one of you is single , is happy to have the ease and freedom to enjoy sex at your convenience and pleasure. Just enjoy it.

Bobby224 - 08 Jan, 2024 - 07:35PM

At the end of the day the excitement should be who you are meeting not the location! Like I said I've had hotel meetings and after a few years of meeting I went to a single person's house. It can all work! I will add initially I was not keen going to someone's house as it felt different as if I was going to different level in the affair. But it changed nothing and we both still understood each others situations. My point still being it's the person one should be excited about and the location should be where both people are happy and comfortable.

ExoticOrchid - 08 Jan, 2024 - 07:28PM

Apparently there are married women who entertain their IEs at home!

Paula99 - 08 Jan, 2024 - 07:21PM

My home is my domain and I would never blur the lines….or expect others to do the same…🤝

ExoticOrchid - 08 Jan, 2024 - 04:09PM

RB - 12:16PM

If it suits your personal circumstances, that's great ... good for you.

Personally I prefer the hotel ... it's neutral ground as well ... turn up and everything is ready ... like a little mini break ... picnic in bed ... leave without having to sort things out ... get home to my own bed and space ... perfect!

 6 members like this comment.

boav91 - 08 Jan, 2024 - 12:36PM

I think my take away is as with most things in life the issue is far more nuanced than it seems and being married or single does not guarantee perceptions of risks are the same. It comes down to the two people, their place in life and whether that works as a couple. If it does it seems that an IE may well work out irrespective of the situation. IF the situation for that couple are deemed not to match up then it wont work. Then the whole thing becomes about those two people, their choices made together and their shared circumstance not their marital status.

Rare Breed - 08 Jan, 2024 - 12:16PM

ExoticOrchid

I haven't actually had the experience of a man saying that but am savvy enough to know the way a man's mind works! Us clued up singles can work THAT out for ourselves for sure, but let's not upset the whole apple cart here! Yes, I have conducted my long term affairs at home, but that has only been after trust has been built. Personally I am sick to death of hotels and prefer my home comforts, but it is not an easy route in and my home is definitely not a knocking shop!!

 2 members like this comment.