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I'm single and not ready for a full time relationship. Why do people feel the need to judge me on here? I don't want to ruin anyone's marriage

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ExoticOrchid - 07 Jan, 2024 - 08:55PM

B224 - 08:39PM

Just wanted to clarify really ... in my experience, there are men here who think a single means a cheap affair ie no hotel expense ... I've actually had (cheap) men who have said so. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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Bobby224 - 07 Jan, 2024 - 08:39PM

The actual point I was trying to make that it doesn't matter if a person is single or married they both can work very successfully. I feel some people stay away from singles which in my opinion can make you miss out on some very special times.

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Bobby224 - 07 Jan, 2024 - 08:35PM

Haha sorry ladies. I was just talking about my experience. I know and definitely respect boundaries of every individual. Every person and every affair is different and hopefully exciting


Legs&Eyes - 07 Jan, 2024 - 08:30PM

Exotic...

Nope, me neither.
For me, its the mentally distinguishing between a 'boyfriend' and an 'affair'... for my headspace to stay in the right place, affairs are not something I'd conduct in my own bed.... I know many singles would, but just not me....

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ExoticOrchid - 07 Jan, 2024 - 08:02PM

Not all singles will entertain an IE at home ... this single definitely doesn't ... a neutral place aka a hotel is the way to go!

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Bobby224 - 07 Jan, 2024 - 07:29PM

Just talking from my experience. I've had two long term affairs, one with a married woman and the other was a single girl. Both were excellent and I trusted both fully with my situation. The single woman just loved her own space and wanted a man's company when she felt the need. To be fair meeting a single woman who has her own place is a lot easier and in more of comfortable environment. Personally I have no problem with either.


ExoticOrchid - 07 Jan, 2024 - 05:16PM

TDiM - 02:34PM

AMEN from me too!!! 👏

(I will be a pariah in my social group as well)

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Legs&Eyes - 07 Jan, 2024 - 03:44PM

The Difference is Me - 07 Jan, 2024 - 02:34PM


AMEN!
To ALL that you have said!

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Paula99 - 07 Jan, 2024 - 02:47PM

Handsomeandmore…

Some of us here know that it’s not good to place people in stereotypical boxes …..we do understand that relationships break down and that an adjustment period is necessary….
What ruffles my feather is when the OP comes straight out of a long term commitment and hasn’t gone through the ‘getting over it ‘ part..as this tends to creep into your new affair as they haven’t put the old one ‘to bed’ ?
Angry spouses/husbands …kids involved …this all has an impact on your currant affair….as it is we don’t want the extra drama but just the extra marital sex/intimacy etc etc.

Not everyone is the same 👍

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The Difference is Me - 07 Jan, 2024 - 02:34PM

I have been on/off this site since 2005/6 ish and been very lucky to have had a couple of long term affairs all with married men. It's fair to say that I have had about 100 dates during this period and obviously chatted to hundreds more! Feedback from men is this and don't shoot the messenger married ladies! I've been told in the main that it's the married ladies who want an escape and dare I say a bolt hole from their marriage. I can't speak for all singles but I have built up a lovely independent life and want to keep it that way. There's just a bit that needs filling now and again. I cherish my space as much as a married and if it comes to losing things then my kids would disown me if they thought I was entertaining married men!! Any liaison comes with a risk. I've had a married 'stalk' me and found out information about me that I hadn't divulged. Us singles aren't pariahs. We just want the excitement and to leave the boring bits behind and there's absolutely nothing wrong with that.

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