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I'm single and not ready for a full time relationship. Why do people feel the need to judge me on here? I don't want to ruin anyone's marriage
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Enigma.. - 26 Dec, 2023 - 04:35PM
@bobloblaw
Well lucky, lucky you.
Choices, choices, choices.
Here in the North the “choices” are very limited.
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bobloblaw10 - 26 Dec, 2023 - 02:59PM
I have experience with both single and married women. I think it very much depends on the person, their status is almost irrelevant.
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Delicious Chaos - 26 Dec, 2023 - 02:43PM
Married - what is at stake?
Marriage - separation, divorce.
Finances - being taken for everything you’ve got
Home - Roof under their head, being homeless potentially.
Kids - being disowned by your children because you are seeing someone behind their parent’s back, the dishonesty etc etc
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Single -? Anyone care to fill this in?
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ExoticOrchid - 26 Dec, 2023 - 02:03PM
scrappymog - 01:38PM
That's very true ... thank you!
Personally, hand on heart, I can say any IE I have gets the best of both worlds ... no grief or hassles from me and no worries of a husband finding out ... no, I'm not taken for granted either because they know I have a "real" life of my own too and not always available (yes, you smug marrieds, singles have lives also) but I can be more flexible with my time.
Oh and being married doesn't stop people getting clingy and too attached, believe me ... I speak from experience!
As always it is a case of "each to their own" ... if you don't want a single, fine ... nobody is forcing you!
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1632896 - 26 Dec, 2023 - 01:38PM
What someone can lose is relative to what they have.
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Paula99 - 26 Dec, 2023 - 11:57AM
There is one rule that applies in IE…
You can’t please everyone so don’t f🎄🎄king try ..😁
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Legs&Eyes - 26 Dec, 2023 - 10:42AM
Life is a beach...
Yes, totally, exactly that...
Enigma..
Yes, understand you have your reasons, as we all do in different ways...
Its knowing your reasons and staying true to them that's important at the end of the day - whether others agree or not
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Enigma.. - 26 Dec, 2023 - 10:18AM
I am not on the site to judge anyone or their choices for being here on the site.
I’m also not “Single Bashing” either.
But I, personally, will not date a single male from the site.
Why!
Due to a couple of experiences I had last year.
One male didn’t want to go out for a meal or drinks etc.. because he didn’t want his family or friends seeing him with a woman who is “attached”.
The other two, would message me, expecting me to just drop everything, there and then, and meet up with them with very little notice.
These are just my personal experiences and the reasons why I, personally, will not date a single person.
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Delicious Chaos - 26 Dec, 2023 - 10:07AM
L & E
No bitterness hun, just giving my view point as are you
Happy IE ing my dear
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