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1322667 - 10 Sep, 2020 - 11:07PM

OrientalAngel80 - 10 Sep, 2020 - 10:04PM
You can try every dish in that restaurant but after a while it becomes predictable.

I agree with OrientalAngel80 on this (you didn't expect to hear that from me, did you OG, huh huh?) 😂
Sex is more than just the physical element, but sometimes that's all that there is at home due to "real world" things like kids, jobs, etc. IE provides a good option to relive the sexcitement, first kisses, first touches, and all that.

tea_coffee_me_ - 10 Sep, 2020 - 11:03PM

" Sportster1200L - . Maybe it will happen sooner or later and IE will no longer be needed but I doubt it."
It will always be needed, even if affairs were more accepted its still bl**dy difficult to find the right person!

"Suadela2020 -
So here’s the thing...I never get why people who are having sex at home want to have a sexual affair."
Many reasons. Some they may be having sex at home, however not the amount they would like, different libidos.
They have an IE to do things with, that their partners do not wish to do.
They may not be at home THAT often, some partner spend a LOT of time away from home, maybe only at home a week a month or every 3 months!

One of my IE's I saw as he flew out to one country, he came back to go out to another country, did not have time to go home and spend time there, fortunately we did meet up ...

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gemini2310 - 10 Sep, 2020 - 11:03PM

Roger 1999

Totally agree with you an escape from time to time then back to reality that's how I remember too from the longterm IE I had

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Roger1999 - 10 Sep, 2020 - 10:57PM

Gemini2310
I think thats what most folk want no?
To live their normal real life that they can go back to but have the fantasy life they can escape to for a bit.
It gets you through the normal humdrum stuff.
Well thats how i remember it at least from my first IE🤔

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1387952 - 10 Sep, 2020 - 10:22PM

@ChrisGC992

Just means you need a strong individual to keep you in check 😉

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1404714 - 10 Sep, 2020 - 10:15PM

I'm here because there is nothing happening at home, no intimacy/cuddles - separate beds - we stay together as it's convenient. It's not just about sex though - feeling 'wanted' is good plus wanting to rekindle those feelings you only get from.a first date.

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ChrisGC992 - 10 Sep, 2020 - 10:08PM

Orientalangel
The only time it gets dangerous is when 2 people let it get that way.. and that can happen if they properly click!

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gemini2310 - 10 Sep, 2020 - 10:05PM

Some still have a good sex life at home I do not I would never sleep with 2 different guys that's just my choice each to there own I only want need one IE and then I will not get to involved we would have a real lives with someone else and that's the way I would keep it

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1387952 - 10 Sep, 2020 - 10:04PM

Suadela2020 - 10 Sep, 2020 - 09:40PM
"...I never get why people who are having sex at home want to have a sexual affair"

Fair point, and I get asked the question repeatedly and I tell them it gets tiresome eating at the same restaurant. You can try every dish in that restaurant but after a while it becomes predictable.
Yes, it does what it is meant to but sex (and food) is a cerebral thing too.

I like the excitement, the buzz you get from being surprised by someone's touch and not knowing the order of events.

As for my 'dangerous' comment. If two people are not getting the sex/intimacy at home, it's too easy to get swept away by the feelings. If one is celibate and the other is like me (just a bit bored and not lacking), then, it means someone will keep things grounded.

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ChrisGC992 - 10 Sep, 2020 - 10:01PM

I wouldn’t be on here if I was satisfied at home, but if the sex is going through the motions then maybe we all want the extra excitement and pleasure

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