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ClassyLady77 - 28 Jan, 2024 - 10:25PM

IF it’s right then you’ll know.. It’ll be easy.
First time is always hard.. I had my first ONS my first time and Never again but it was good to make me realise I could do this & didn’t feel guilty etc..

I met someone recently, we met for a drink and clicked however he was scared to cheat, he made me feel like I was a slut for wanting more. Other person has feelings too

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1602525 - 28 Jan, 2024 - 09:11PM

Simple lesson (from those who've been there) is you can't be sure . Stick to the same rules for 'normal dating' , three dates or more before committing to something serious. If they are'nt the right match then tell them asap. It doesn't hurt to be kind and saves you a whole lot of bother in the long run.

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giggly hamster - 28 Jan, 2024 - 06:51PM

@Utopia

Sadly no lucky escape. Nope, I did the deed and not just once.

When the paint washed off my eyeballs and nether regions I literally felt like Ace ventura when he finds out Einhorn is finkel and Finkel is Einhorn!

I couldn't unsee what I'd seen and there was no facility to have my memory wiped.
There are many times I've questioned male stupidity and irrationality, but that one, yes.. .
even now I won't have a roller blind in the house as it's far too close to an immensely pendulous boob unravelling - and not in a good way.

In a nutshell I was young, dumb and full of ...er... relish.
I think it should have said everything when before the first evening's PM's were cold she was already in her car driving down from that London. Oh my fidgety days, even now it makes me facepalm myself with a garden spade.

1636787 - 28 Jan, 2024 - 05:49PM

Well you've come this far and joined this group.
What was the reason for joining?
Is it still valid?
Time to give it a go..

Mr sub - 28 Jan, 2024 - 05:38PM

Hi

ExoticOrchid - 28 Jan, 2024 - 05:24PM

Utopia - 12:56PM

To quote Frank Sinatra ... 🎶 regrets, I've had a few ... 🎶

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Zayn98 - 28 Jan, 2024 - 05:13PM

I’m in the same boat, but I’m confident I could make it work, happy to chat with anyone willing to help me out ;)

1645868 - 28 Jan, 2024 - 03:15PM

@giggly hamster
That’s made my day lol 😂
Wow you had a lucky escape by the sounds of that then

giggly hamster - 28 Jan, 2024 - 02:01PM

@utopia
absolutely. there was one lady I found myself with who was not only fifty shades of treehouse bonkers, but also I clearly had my eyeballs and my testicles painted on. I'm no oil painting, but jesus H corbitt on a lettuce leaf.

God knows what I was doing, and god knows what I was thinking - well, I wasn't that's the problem, due to aformentioned painted on testicles and eyeballs.

Needless to say I reprimanded myself severely for that one, many words with myself were had, and when the wider then links forum community back in the day found out who it was i jut got told by one of them "Really...!!! , I mean ... Really? what were you thinking?!? " says it all.

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Secret_fun2020 - 28 Jan, 2024 - 01:43PM

You never know that this is right for you until you do it. I always thought I'd have trouble with guilt, but I found that wasn't the case