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1645868 - 28 Jan, 2024 - 12:56PM

Has anyone done said deed and then regretted ir ? I wonder what the majority leans towards regret or happiness

giggly hamster - 28 Jan, 2024 - 12:46PM

put simply, you won't until you close your eyes and step off the cliff.

everyone here has been in that position, and everyone has felt the way you do, and everyone has taken that step that they can't turn back from once you've done it.

If it's not right for either of you then chances are by next morning or that afternoon you'll just want to go home and forget anyof it ever happenned. if it is right for you, you'll already be thinking of the next time you see them.

Only two of you know what went on, and only two of you have to live with it.
Don't underestimate just how big a thing you're about to plunge into, so you're allowed to pull the parachute cord if you want to.

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1586130 - 28 Jan, 2024 - 12:28PM

This post is 4 years old now. I wonder if the OP is still undecided

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Paula99 - 28 Jan, 2024 - 11:41AM

The Maestro…

Both sexes are guilty of that ..👍

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TheMaestro - 28 Jan, 2024 - 11:02AM

It's a big decision and I have met ladies who seemed keen on first meeting but then decided it wasn't for them.

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1639246 - 28 Jan, 2024 - 10:29AM

You could always say “bloody hell, let’s go back to my place and deal with it in the morning“
(quote from a young lady to me when I was regular dating….and being the unsure gentleman coming out of the pub)
Ha ha…not very helpful I know, but it’s still one of my favourite quotes.

1645868 - 28 Jan, 2024 - 09:28AM

I would suggest you arrange a hotel room together but put down the rules that neither of you are going to have sex , yes you can kiss play around maybe have bottle of fizz.
Then after you leave the venue you will see how that felt with you mentally and emotionally, and that may take a day or two , if your full of guilt you know you shouldn’t go the full way next time however it may have felt amazing and euphoric then you know next time what to do

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1627479 - 22 Nov, 2023 - 09:05AM

If there is doubt, then there is no doubt.
You are uncertain, so it’s a definite NO.

If you do have sex with another, and the uncertainty creeps in, you might attempt to salve your conscience by confessing.
And you should never ever confess. That way marriage break up follows.
Never kiss and tell, the other party deserves your discretion every bit as much as you .

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Rainorshine - 22 Nov, 2023 - 08:34AM

I've done the same. Just dabble and see where it leads you xx

TheBoredHousewife - 11 Nov, 2023 - 08:38AM

If you’re umming and ahhing, and the other person is effing and jeffing, then it’s probably best to stay home and do the dishwashing.

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