How do you know?
Hi,
I am iffing and umming about taking the plunge and having an affair. I've met someone I really like, and now we want to take it to the next level. How can I be sure this is the right thing for me... I've never done anything like this before.
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Paula99 - 10 Nov, 2023 - 12:58PM
If you are umming and ahhhing …then the most you are going to get is people effing and jeffing 😂
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1529050 - 10 Nov, 2023 - 11:27AM
If you are umming and ahhing (I think that is the correct term) - then No do not do it.
This is one of the reasons as well as younger men (see previous threads) I avoid newbies like the plague.
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Paula99 - 03 Nov, 2023 - 04:49PM
Sploshing ????
I’ll pass on that …don’t mind licking cream or eating strawberries 🍓 …too messy 😂😂😂
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1588157 - 03 Nov, 2023 - 12:57AM
Paula n becky
I think prefer 'sploshing"!
P911 pass the custard
1408586 - 02 Nov, 2023 - 08:36AM
Paula I usually discover almost every word is also a sex act in urban dictionary 😂😂
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1588157 - 01 Nov, 2023 - 11:48PM
Question....what is breadcrumbing?
Is it a technique used on great british bake off to achieve a good topping on your apple crumble?
P911 hansel & gretl
Life is a beach - 01 Nov, 2023 - 03:18PM
Most of us joined this site because there was something missing in our relationship, with the view of meeting someone we can connect with.
Initially I didn't know what to expect.
If you haven't yet met, do meet in a public place first. You may find there is no spark.
If there is a spark then you can consider meeting again.
Make sure you are both aware of not taking risks and that you are both considerate of each other
Legs&Eyes - 31 Oct, 2023 - 07:43PM
Alphamale8519 -31 Oct, 2023 - 04:51PM
It sounds like there's a huge element of tit-for-tat in your reasons for been here... I'm not sure that that feels like a planned and considered situation before embarking on something that could end your marriage...Its not a game after all is it, its a potentially life-changing situation for all involved...
Just my own view thats all.... hope it works out for you.
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1632156 - 31 Oct, 2023 - 04:51PM
I’m in a similar position where I found my wife and a friend had been having a virtual affair, probably before it becomes physical. It massively bothered me as it came from nowhere that I discovered it was going on. Now I’m at the point trust is gone, I need to find myself again and therefore looking for someone to have some fun with. Why is she getting to have all the fun!?
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