A polite no?
So as I’m here looking for an IE lots of people spring up that I’m not physically attracted too, how do you let that person down without sounding horrible and blunt?
I’m a nice person and I find telling people you’re not my type really offensive so I end up ghosting them which is also bad but how else can I say it?
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1449137 - 20 Apr, 2021 - 08:49PM
You should try "Thank you for your picture, you seem nice but unfortunately i am not physically attracted to you" that seems to work for most...
Alternatively, point and laugh in there face, whilst making vomiting noises.
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1410680 - 23 Mar, 2021 - 09:40AM
There should be some sort of ghosting clause on here as it is so tiresome
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1422808 - 18 Mar, 2021 - 07:08PM
Sadly politeness is a rare thing on here. Its the right thing to do say no thank you unless the person asks you don't. I sometimes say at the dreaded password exchange moment no need to reply if im not for you. Makes it easier and no offence taken as its requested.
1442420 - 18 Mar, 2021 - 09:40AM
I agree with most replies, be honest and if you not physically attracted to someone then where do they actually think things will go.
I think just remaining silent is rude and if someone just tells me no thank you I kind of respect them more
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1367102 - 15 Mar, 2021 - 10:40AM
Just be honest with them.
1151610 - 14 Mar, 2021 - 10:29PM
Just honest ... I think a reply to say so is important. I get many “sorry you’re not my type” but I always reply with a thank for being honest. Everyone is seeking someone special, we can’t all be that person.
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1352755 - 13 Mar, 2021 - 11:04PM
Sportster1200L
Let’s just do coffee and flirt 😜
John_Herc - 13 Mar, 2021 - 09:21PM
Some of the replies here are so depressing. Of course no means no, and I really cant understand the number in my gender that dont get that. From a blokes perspective, yes Id advise being really clear if its a no. Its best for both parties. Only an unreasonable person (of any gender) would think otherwise, and that just tells you you made the right decision. The great thing about online stuff like this is it allows you to do all of that safely (i hope) and avoid difficult situations. Take care and carry on being honest. Us honest blokes will value that x
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Enigma.. - 13 Mar, 2021 - 05:14PM
Be open and honest. If they cannot accept why you don’t feel a connection. Their loss.
I’ve only been on here for a few weeks but already have had a few “awkward” experiences lol. So much so I’ve have to block. And blocking is not my style. But hell...
I’m Scottish. A feisty, but honest, decent and sexy female. And if you don’t like what you see!?! Just say so!! It’s not that difficult!?!
Insults etc are not welcome. If you want to put me on the back burner while you try to look for something else. Jog on. I don’t do second best, never have done and never will. Just saying lol 😉 x
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