Can attraction not just be physical?
I met a wonderful lady recently. We had been chatting for some time, and finally met up. The connection is definitely there. Things have now progressed to the bedroom. Alas physically I am disappointed. Without going into too much detail, it seems that quite a bit of padding support has been used. I really prefer a ‘good handful’. Much as I really like her, my physical desires for what constitutes a woman are not met. I feel I have been lied to, but do not want to hurt her feelings. How do I let her down gently, or do I stay, as she is very keen and I do love her personality?
Thank you for posting this. I genuinely am in a dilemma!
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Paula99 - 01 Apr, 2022 - 02:20PM
We have all got something we are not happy with when it comes to our bodies.. I always wanted long legs...but at 5 ft 1 there is more chance of hell freezing over....😊
There is always something to offer instead...🤣
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1117169 - 01 Apr, 2022 - 02:12PM
@Lexi80
As I say further down, many men prefer smaller chests so dont be sad.
I do think some compromise is inevitable though. Nobody's "Pefect" man or woman exists on this site or anywhere.
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1486196 - 01 Apr, 2022 - 10:53AM
As a smaller chested woman this does make me sad, but more my issue than the OP’s. Spent a lot of my life feeling less ‘feminine’ and less ‘attractive’ as I have small breasts. However I do have an attraction to a certain type of man, tall, broad shoulders, rugby player physique. For me height is a deal breaker, so I guess I am no different to the OP. I think that when looking for an affair partner we are looking for that ‘fantasy’ that ‘escape’ from reality. I have ‘settled’ in my marriage. I don’t want to ‘settle’ when looking for an affair partner.
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1497533 - 29 Mar, 2022 - 12:23PM
Sportster
Yes i know. I'll let you have the last,word as i know you like to
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1117169 - 29 Mar, 2022 - 06:28AM
Londonladye6
No I didn't.
I said lots of ladies think they need to have big boobs to act as a gender signal and some women choose to have them by having implants.
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Chezley - 28 Mar, 2022 - 07:10PM
She must have been a mid fielder in the women's football team.
You'd be lucky to find enough tit to make a bee sting!
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1512065 - 28 Mar, 2022 - 06:47PM
Let your heart rule your head
1497533 - 28 Mar, 2022 - 06:39PM
Sportster
No we're not. You said lots of ladies think they need big boobs blah blah. Swiftly changed to some women
Im saying some of us have big boobs not by choice and they're not there to attract men.
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1117169 - 28 Mar, 2022 - 06:07PM
@Londonlady6
We both seem to be completely in agreement then.
Paula99 - 28 Mar, 2022 - 04:32PM
..heavy boobs are not good for posture and carrying them around all day..😖
When you go to the gym they are like a couple of ferrets moving around....thankgod for the sports bra..🤣
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