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1676594 - 03 Jun, 2024 - 11:26AM

For me I'd never try and recreate a previous relationship

MagicMouse321 - 03 Jun, 2024 - 11:04AM

I'm not sure he's trying to 'recreate' what he had, he's probably just wanting to continue on as he knows best.
I'd try actually talking to him, providing him with kind feedback of what/how he could change. And say what you want too?
Or just start again on IE ?!

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Paula99 - 03 Jun, 2024 - 10:57AM

Black gent….

Considering you are divorced…did you not ask your ex wife the same question?

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Black Gent - 03 Jun, 2024 - 09:17AM

Are you sure that he is trying to recreate a relationship or just his happy actions. For example he may enjoy the plunge pool after a sauna as he fid with his wife and discusses it with you but this is something that he may have enjoyed or before he married. It may be something that is independent of his first wife.

Is it such a hard thing to make your husband happy??

The Joy of Impotence - 26 May, 2023 - 08:13PM

And what are you trying to recreate by being on IE?
Your previous divorce proceedings!

1598075 - 16 May, 2023 - 11:27PM

Why don’t you ask him. None will have a better answer than he will

1585013 - 03 Apr, 2023 - 02:13PM

For 30 years I have just been with my wife .. I don’t think I would try to recreate the mess I have made of that ..

If he’s trying to add good bits . Say yes please .. but hopefully it’s not too stepford wives for you

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Cheesypuff - 02 Apr, 2023 - 02:42PM

Paula99 - 31 Mar, 2023 - 07:32PM

And kinky

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Paula99 - 31 Mar, 2023 - 07:32PM

Hot Spic…

The servers need to pull the plug on that God awful place ..aka Mumsnet..
Make no bones about it the ‘ladies’ on here are far more intelligent 🤔

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1586130 - 31 Mar, 2023 - 04:59PM

I agree with Ferrari. It's one for a counsellor. Some of the advice here comes across as very "mumsnetty".