When should you end it?
So, you have been seeing your perfect affair partner for a few months and then you notice that what was once a steamy affair with both parties being really into it, is now just like your relationship with your OH with you trying your best to keep them interested and constantly wondering if you are actually ‘one of many’ after-all.
Yes, they show up for their ‘once per week’ as promised, but whereas before they would stay a while, they are out the door straight away due to ‘work commitments’!
Is now the time to part ways? This is exactly what is missing, necessitating the need for an affair in the first place!
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Quietboy - 23 Aug, 2024 - 01:55PM
Paula99
Your comment is also bang these things just develop over time I joined with the look of oh these things will only last a few months but one didnt it was a brilliant 3 years I wouldn’t change a thing
& I only said if your unhappy it’s just how I go here in the first place
You all have a good weekend 👌
EmnEm123 - 23 Aug, 2024 - 01:19PM
Quietboy
Everyone who has an affair isn't necessarily desperately unhappy at home as you have just learned.
Your AP has chosen to stay with her husband.
I think most people would try not to let an affair adversely affect their "real" life.
Quietboy - 23 Aug, 2024 - 12:01PM
Me & my AP had an affair for 3 years & she made me so happy infact I’ve never been so happy
It ended 9 weeks ago today her H found out & yes I know feeling shouldn’t of come into it but it just happened I fell in love with her & I still do always will on my mind all day every day .
We had a 1 hr phone thing is we always said we have loads of time we only had an hr .
I did go to see her to see just how she was thsts me sorry how I’m made
I’m totalky heart broken
Anyway the above shows how things can end so very quick
If yiu ever find someone you like tell them simple if your unhappy @ home leave I am / have
I’ll wait for comments no doubt mixed 👍
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Paula99 - 20 Jul, 2024 - 04:58PM
Happy Joe …
She gave you a reason …be happy with it …she could have just disappeared…clearly she wasn’t the one for you ..just move on … I am sure the right person is out there 🤗
Pink Eiga - 19 Jul, 2024 - 08:01PM
HappyJoe46 - 19 Jul, 2024 - 03:37PM
Had you agreed exclusivity?
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1408586 - 19 Jul, 2024 - 06:11PM
I so agree with that Luminescent 🥺
But happy Joe- you’d only met her once? Next time meet sooner and see how it develops.
ExoticOrchid - 19 Jul, 2024 - 05:13PM
HJ46 - 03:37PM
As an adult, you manage that attachment to a realistic level.
Re that old chestnut "trying again with husband" ... at least she has given you a reason and didn't just ghost you so be glad about that.
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1682268 - 19 Jul, 2024 - 04:34PM
HappyJoe
It is so hard to not get attached to someone, whether its a short term or long term relationship, most humans will develop feelings for each other and start to care. Thats the danger of an affair, when it crashes and burns it can leave you devastated, especially if you really invested in that person.
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EmnEm123 - 19 Jul, 2024 - 03:48PM
HappyJoe46
I think that the I'm trying again with my husband excuse was probably a way to let you down gently.
She wasn't the one for you, chalk it up to experience and move on.
The next one maybe the right one, maybe not.
Try not to get too invested, especially at the beginning, I think most here would say they've had similar experiences.
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