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Paula99 - 02 Aug, 2024 - 03:28PM

Ok so more red 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

Recently separated/divorced…feeling alone

Widowed/Retirement ….cross roads

Not had an affair for some years…they think it’s going to be easy..

Busy lifestyle aka hobbies/sports/work/ god knows what else…

Just about to go on holiday ….wife is packing/he’s short of things to do..

Wife is away and he’s getting restless…feeling lost ..

Partner is ill / disabled…

Images taken some years ago/hats /sunglasses?

Just moved into a new house/flat…do they think it’s going to decorate and furnish itself …

And last of all moaning about the cost of IE and ….still not reading my profile 😖

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1687814 - 01 Aug, 2024 - 10:22PM

No one is getting their hands on my tail.

BeardsRule - 01 Aug, 2024 - 10:07PM

Very meta. I like that.

Funguy77 - 01 Aug, 2024 - 09:20PM

Dam I was too 😝

ExoticOrchid - 01 Aug, 2024 - 09:08PM

My 🚩🚩🚩 are men who complain about their red flags!!! 😒

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1408586 - 01 Aug, 2024 - 08:11PM

That’s a shame CatandTatman- think Funguy was hoping for some action 😂

1687814 - 01 Aug, 2024 - 07:39PM

@Funguy

Thx for the heads up. I’m in Glasgow this weekend and I was gonna visit Edinburgh but think I’ll give it a miss.🙏

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BeardsRule - 01 Aug, 2024 - 07:35PM

I’m pretty tolerant but a few red flags for me are:

- sending just a gift or VK to initiate conversation
- poor spelling or grammar
- not being *brutally* honest
- a significant mismatch between what’s written on the profile and the first IRL conversation
- *never* offering to pay for anything. I want to meet confident modern women, not gold diggers.

Some of the above may be considered “turn offs” rather than red flags, but pedantry would be a red flag too, wouldn’t it?

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Paula99 - 01 Aug, 2024 - 05:23PM

My biggest flag is …

Not reading my profile … 🚩

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Funguy77 - 01 Aug, 2024 - 04:35PM

Off topic but it’s the start of the Edinburgh festival today
Any of you planning on a weekend in Edinburgh 😝