Red Flags 🚩
We hear regularly about the 'Red Flags' that turn people off a person in conversation and dates/meets. What have been your 'Red Flag' experiences during conversations and/or first dates? What lifted up the 🚩 for you? Or maybe it was a few 🚩 and worthy of bunting?
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Pumpkin Spice - 31 Jul, 2024 - 08:44PM
I was chatting to someone who had great potential for being my 'dear friend' right up until he went into a soap box diatribe after not getting his own way about a very trivial thing. It's not just small children who do not like the word 'NO'. C'est la vie ...
Paula99 - 31 Jul, 2024 - 08:36PM
Beckysharp…
It’s not easy to move from one guy to another …we have all been through the emotions…It’s good to accept that we are human …your new guy is one lucky fella ..💕
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1408586 - 31 Jul, 2024 - 07:55PM
Oh and to add further to my own red flagness… I actually cried a little bit one of the first times I met him when he mentioned/asked something about my ex 🙈.
Littlebird361 - 31 Jul, 2024 - 07:17PM
Apologies Funguy77. As a "connoisseur of both intellect and desire" what's your favourite colour?
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1408586 - 31 Jul, 2024 - 07:16PM
The_Fit_Gent I met my current ie very soon after dumping my previous affair. I wasn’t sure for a little while if I was ready to meet him (anyone) but I knew he had great potential so thought why not. Luckily he was very patient with me and we’ve been seeing each other regularly for over a year.
I’m so so glad he didn’t ’do us both a favour and move on’ 😬😂
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Funguy77 - 31 Jul, 2024 - 06:26PM
Can we stop with the COVID crap and political chat . If this is an example of the chat then zzzzzzzzZzzzzZzzzz
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Littlebird361 - 31 Jul, 2024 - 06:12PM
I don't know why people imagine that the Furlough Scheme was such a philanthropic gesture towards working people. Without money to buy groceries etc big business would have felt the pinch very quickly. The government only gave us money so we could give it to those who are the traditional doners to the Tory party and thereby save their businesses.
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1686467 - 31 Jul, 2024 - 04:51PM
I was quite literally a day or two away from meeting someone really nice when they started to reference their Mr Previous affair and how much they were still hurting from that experience. When I asked how long it had been since they parted ways the answer was very recent. I tried to help her with this the best I could by talking about it with her.
What ultimately broke the camels back, and this is an absolute NO NO for me and many guys, is when she started to probe me about how pretty my recent engagements were and trying to get me to compare them with her... That was it.. To me she was just not ready and I did us both a favour and moved on sadly.
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Paula99 - 31 Jul, 2024 - 04:37PM
MarkLondonEngland…
Boris is as nutty as fruitcake…I dare say he didn’t do everything right but that’s a British Government thing … but he introduced the vaccines when half of Europe were dithering and he implemented the Furlough Scheme…what I didn’t agree with is the scare mongering and the propaganda from Social Media and the gutter press😖
I know many couldn’t see their family and a people passed away without the comfort of their relatives nearby ..and the majority of the medical staff were traumatised by the whole process
I worked through Covid and didn’t have the luxury of WFH….not once did I blame BJ ….he was stuck in the middle of it …the big question is ..who would have done a better job? Typical of the press they are all wise after the facts
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