Comments (29)

Funguy77 - 02 Apr, 2025 - 08:23PM

@leggysheila

If you couldn’t see how did you know it was him 🤦

Carer69 - 02 Apr, 2025 - 08:10PM

Invent an innocent story about why you are meeting. A business meet, a social survey whatever. Then if you are spotted you've told people already.

Jimjames350 - 02 Apr, 2025 - 09:36AM

Ask a friend or a mate on here for accommodation

leggysheila - 02 Apr, 2025 - 07:44AM

I was fucked by my future husband on our first date that was a blind date xxx

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ad88xx - 01 Apr, 2025 - 04:49PM

Have a separate phone, or use good sec ops if using main phone (passcode, hidden apps, no notifications) also be wary of ai on your phone it can grass you up unintentionally (reminder to message your IE, common places to visit etc).

Have a reason for being there, I’ve joined a gym in my fav hotel, so that if I ever did get caught, I’ve the perfect reason for attending.

Make sure you understand the situation when getting intimate. If one or both like to be rough, no marks etc. if you use protection, make sure you really wash the smell of latex that can linger for ages if you are still intimate with your OH.

Other than that, that’s about all you can do.

Purple dreamer - 01 Apr, 2025 - 12:33PM

Find a nice quiet place that is good for both of you

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SirrahNek - 30 Mar, 2025 - 08:56PM

@budgie817 - you’re allowed to do it on the lawn if there’s pampas grass in the front garden.

budgie817 - 30 Mar, 2025 - 05:40PM

Do not under any circumstance take out a full page advert in the paper.

Do not do it on the front lawn, or middle of the road.

Or in front of friends or family of either yourself or your significant other.

Or on a live television outside broadcast.

Discretion is better part of...allure...

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Paula99 - 29 Mar, 2025 - 12:34PM

Exotic Orchid …

That’s so true ……some friends of mine went to America on holiday and they were staying in the same place as their neighbours ….😂

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ExoticOrchid - 29 Mar, 2025 - 09:22AM

It's a small world ... you never know who you'll run into even when "far away from home" ... i have met people from home on the other side of the world!!!

Good advice about avoiding PDAs in public (no matter where you are).

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