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1614914 - 11 Aug, 2023 - 04:39PM

@ClassyLady - this is my personal opinion and I don’t mean any disrespect at all but if if you’re going into “an affair” and thinking “sh1t… I’ve got more too lose than you” that for me is the wrong mentally.
Everyone’s interpretation of an affair is different but you shouldn’t be thinking about losing anything. Yes there are risks when it comes to an IE and maybe it’s easier to chat to someone who’s attached but it’s all about respecting each other’s boundaries and finding that middle ground regardless of your marital status.

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ExoticOrchid - 11 Aug, 2023 - 11:26AM

Legs&Eyes - 11 Aug, 2023 - 09:48AM

You know how "single bashing" does the rounds on the Forum every so often ... haha!

Let's see if Admin prints this!!!

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ClassyLady77 - 11 Aug, 2023 - 11:22AM

For me I won’t meet a single man as I want a level playing field. I’ve got a lot to loose and single men don’t. Also I know a lot of men who’ve had their marriages end due to them meeting a single women and she told their Mrs.. Single men probably won’t be that bad but I’m not prepared to take that risk

@Funguy77 cheating for first time can be hard but when it’s right there is no nerves. Maybe move on

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Legs&Eyes - 11 Aug, 2023 - 09:48AM

Ooh did someone mention ‘singles should be on single-sites’???? 🤔

🤣🤣🤣

Nope. It’s feel-good Friday, get back in the broom-cupboard Legs!!!

🤷🏻‍♀️

Funguy77 - 11 Aug, 2023 - 08:46AM

@ ClassyLady77 - 11 Aug, 2023 - 04:50AM

I still don’t understand why it’s an issue for some of the IE is married or single.

Thank you regarding my possible new lady it’s still very new but I do have my fingers crossed 🤞 we have had lots of chat face times and a drink out in town but she seems nervous . Buy the way I wrote a short story about it in the ( all going well untill forum )

Ps I am a big softie at heart ❤️

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Funguy77 - 11 Aug, 2023 - 08:39AM

@ Caroline Red - 11 Aug, 2023 - 04:47AM

Hay I’m not naive about the way the world works . But having an affair is not always about being untrustworthy lots of us on here are here through circumstance and I’ll still bet there’s a very high percentage on here wanting to stay clean and safe . Me personally we had an agreement that we would not have more than us due to the factors I just mentioned and to be able to give each other the time and attention we both deserve and seek .


Remember guys and girls please be kind on here and when dealing with people out in the real world x

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Paula99 - 11 Aug, 2023 - 08:26AM

It’s good to respect others opinions as we are all guilty of ‘getting the wrong end of the stick ‘ at times..
As much as we post our 😊 faces and emojis 👍..it will never replace real facial expressions or eye contact or ‘real’ smiles ..

Happy posting everyone…🤗

ClassyLady77 - 11 Aug, 2023 - 04:50AM

Time to end.. 🤔 that’s tricky one. Can you find better?


I met someone recently who said he was married but turns out he was single.. 🤦‍♀️ men 🤥 . They say whatever they think you want to hear to get sex.

I won’t meet single men as I want my man to be on same page and have same risks.. single men should stick to single sights. Maybe they think women on here are more desperate and so guaranteed more.. 🤔

@FunGuy77 I still have sec with OH, I am honest about it. Should I not be on here? 🤔 Good luck with your new lady.. 🤞🏻 😘

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Caroline Red - 11 Aug, 2023 - 04:47AM

SHOCK NEWS: people on a site for people who cheat on their OHs also cheat on the people they're cheating with. To summarise this conversation. At what point ladies and gentlemen did you assume that dating a cheater would mean they suddenly changed who they are and became honest and loyal to you. Treat this site for what it is and enjoy the fact you're meeting people who are just as manipulative, cunning and deceptive as you are. Loyalty is nobody's middle name on here.

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Sandypops - 11 Aug, 2023 - 01:00AM

I agree with so many of the comments on here about the fact that we are chatting with people who have real feelings.
It's pretty soul-destroying that there seem to be so many disingenuous people on the site - I'm sure I must have a flashing arrow pointing them in my direction 🤦🏻‍♀️
But I'm hoping I can stick with it long enough to find my perfect ie (as I'm on the cusp of just giving up on that wish and just doing nsa or giving up completely)

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