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Enigma.. - 10 Aug, 2023 - 06:31PM

I’d like to point out that I wasn’t getting at single people, here, on the site.
I know that there are genuine females and males on this site who have reasons for preferring to be on a married dating site.
My point is/was why other “non singletons” lie about their marital status?!?
Even worse why continue to see another woman/man when they are not what they are looking for.
Apparently there are people, on this site, that will hang onto someone until, perhaps, a better offer comes along.
Then discover that the grass is not always greener on the other side of the fence 🙄😏.
They attempt to crawl back to their original choice when it doesn’t work out with their new choice.
People need to realise you are dealing with real feelings etc… here.
It’s not bloomin chess.

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ExoticOrchid - 10 Aug, 2023 - 04:59PM

EB - 04:41PM

Yes, it does ... therefore those who make insulting comments about single people should be told. Simples.

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1447655 - 10 Aug, 2023 - 04:41PM

It takes all sorts, people, all sorts...

ExoticOrchid - 10 Aug, 2023 - 11:38AM

Dotty Green - 09 Aug, 2023 - 12:13PM

"ExoticOrchid - 08 Aug, 2023 - 12:27PM
One of the ladies of whom I speak -"

Indeed DG ... people's personalities [both male and female] and behaviour have no bearing on whether they are married or single ... as we know full well there are several married women who are totally obssessed with their married IEs the way I, as a single, have never been!

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Funguy77 - 10 Aug, 2023 - 11:12AM

Apologies for poor spelling and grammar that was done in a hurry xx

Funguy77 - 10 Aug, 2023 - 11:02AM

@ Enigma.. - 10 Aug, 2023 - 06:59AM

Agreed. This has recently happened to me . I meet my IE on another well known site but she is also on this one . Been seeing her for 2 months totally clicked with her new her life was a little complicated ( there’s that word again ) finally had our moments then she dropped the bombshell that not only is she sleeping with OH but has someone else and feels soooooo guilty for cheating. So I ask how and why you feel bad ? Then comes a crushing blow well I fell really bad for what’s said next but some may not care. She said no no I don’t feel bad for my husband but for the other guy ! ! It’s like a total F-U .not sure why I reacted the way I did but I said buy and blocked after she said with real feelings she wants to stay friends.. gutted I blocked her and deleted from my life . It’s been some time now think I have meet a really nice girl from hear but she also seems a little distant but I do think she’s rather special. Fingers crossed but still chatting to othe

Enigma.. - 10 Aug, 2023 - 06:59AM

When should you end it? 🤔

When you find out that HE isn’t actually divorced but still very much married.

ANNND… He’s already seeing someone else off the site but she’s not really what he’s looking for.

Luckily “the situation” hadn’t gotten as far as a meet.

This happened last year and I can see the funny side now but it’s made me avoid anyone with separated or divorced as their marital status.

Gent’s word of advice. Don’t message when you are drunk and decide to confess all 😂🙄🤷🏼‍♀️.

If your Ie is not what you are looking for, this applies to both males and females, don’t get involved as it’ll only end one way.

No further comment .

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Emerald Dream - 09 Aug, 2023 - 11:55PM

That kind of arrangement isn't an affair, it's more like an FB situation.If that doesn't suit you then you move on ..But I'd make sure to discuss it first in case the I.E .doesn't realise they were falling short of your expectations .

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Emerald Dream - 09 Aug, 2023 - 11:55PM

That kind of arrangement isn't an affair, it's more like an FB situation.If that doesn't suit you then you move on ..But I'd make sure to discuss it first in case the I.E .doesn't realise they were falling short of your expectations .

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Funguy77 - 09 Aug, 2023 - 12:37PM

We are all here for a good time not all of us are looking for just sex but companionship. Remember to be kind to one another and bring some joy and laughter to others it will make you feel good at the same time xx

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