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When should you end it?

So, you have been seeing your perfect affair partner for a few months and then you notice that what was once a steamy affair with both parties being really into it, is now just like your relationship with your OH with you trying your best to keep them interested and constantly wondering if you are actually ‘one of many’ after-all.

Yes, they show up for their ‘once per week’ as promised, but whereas before they would stay a while, they are out the door straight away due to ‘work commitments’!

Is now the time to part ways? This is exactly what is missing, necessitating the need for an affair in the first place!

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Funguy77 - 04 Aug, 2023 - 09:01AM

@Theboardhousewife

I have the worst headache of all……. Self inflicted 💔


ExoticOrchid - 04 Aug, 2023 - 08:24AM

CL77 - 11:05PM

Not necessarily and not all men/women are ... as I have always said, my motto is:

"more than sex, less than love"

All depends on the individuals of course ... there is no one size fits all in the "affair" situation (no pun intended! 😄).

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1408586 - 04 Aug, 2023 - 07:36AM

It might just be self protection classylady77. Especially if you’ve been hurt before.

I can do emotionless hookups. But they just don’t compare in anyway to there being some feelings and connection (not necessarily love).

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Paula99 - 04 Aug, 2023 - 05:30AM

ClassyC7/Mm34.

It’s too easy to say that you are here for the lust … we have all said that…you think you can detach yourself forever but be be careful what you wish for 😁

The longer the affair the more the ‘feelings’ develop and these things have a habit of creeping up on you…

Funguy77…

Men get broken hearts also 💕

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TJJ89_fun - 04 Aug, 2023 - 12:07AM

This may sound like the absolute obvious, but surely you carry on for as long as you both can AND as long as it’s both fun and enjoyable for you both?


ClassyLady77 - 03 Aug, 2023 - 11:05PM

I’m starting to think I’m a heartless bitch. I don’t open up to anyone unless they open up to me first.. That way no feelings and nobody gets hurst.. for me it’s the little things like affair remembering my birthday that means more..

I found men on here are just emotionless too.. it’s just sex, so it’s just sex for me too.. I don’t care

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Marriedmum34 - 03 Aug, 2023 - 10:46PM

For me affairs are a thing of passion not love I just want sex I’m already married ! That’s for all the feelings and stuff I don’t remember half the people’s names nor do I care to ask ...

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Pink Eiga - 03 Aug, 2023 - 10:29PM

Funguy77 - 03 Aug, 2023 - 09:27PM

Oh bloody hell, who broke your heart?

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1408586 - 03 Aug, 2023 - 10:18PM

Funguy77 I thought you were having your first hotel meet this week? What happened?! Not sounding positive!


Sandypops - 03 Aug, 2023 - 10:06PM

Wow Funguy77 that's amazing.

I'm desperately trying to keep my feelings and expectations in check, but it's so difficult when you really like someone 🤦🏻‍♀️
It's like I'm embarking on a journey where I already know I'm going to get hurt and heartbroken.
So I'm just going to enjoy myself for as long as I can, and let my female best friend deal with me being an emotional wreck when I'm heartbroken 😂 I've already forewarned her 😂

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