When should you end it?
So, you have been seeing your perfect affair partner for a few months and then you notice that what was once a steamy affair with both parties being really into it, is now just like your relationship with your OH with you trying your best to keep them interested and constantly wondering if you are actually ‘one of many’ after-all.
Yes, they show up for their ‘once per week’ as promised, but whereas before they would stay a while, they are out the door straight away due to ‘work commitments’!
Is now the time to part ways? This is exactly what is missing, necessitating the need for an affair in the first place!
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Funguy77 - 03 Aug, 2023 - 09:27PM
I wrote this today feeling d as sorry for myself..I’m guilty for the crime of falling in love too easily and frequently x
In shadows danced our secret flame,
A love concealed, a hidden game.
But now the time has come to part,
A wounded soul, a broken heart.
A tender touch we could not share,
A stolen moment, full of care.
Yet guilt and pain now weigh us down,
As we untangle love's cruel crown.
Through whispered nights and stolen glances,
We found passion's secret dances.
But now the truth must set us free,
To heal the hurt and let it be.
Though parting brings a bitter sting,
Let's cherish memories on the wing.
For in the pain, a lesson learned,
A secret love, too easily burned.
45 and still a fool
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Paula99 - 03 Aug, 2023 - 08:22PM
It’s not always about the person ending the affair ..sometimes it’s circumstances like job changes or moving out of the area..affairs are ‘forced’ to change but that is the nature of the business we are in ..😉
SD/MF/SG321…
To clarify…if you are not looking forward to seeing your IE … and you don’t get that ‘I want to fxxk you ‘ feelings then it’s time to call it a day ..😏
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1614914 - 03 Aug, 2023 - 07:16PM
I would say you should think about ending it when meeting up doesn’t have the same excitement as it once did and when you know he’s messaged but you no longer get those butterflies.
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missingfun - 03 Aug, 2023 - 05:20PM
When you find yourself thinking of reasons to skip the planned meet
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1612031 - 18 Jul, 2023 - 09:57PM
When it starts feeling like a chore.
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Footman64 - 14 Jul, 2023 - 05:40PM
This is my first post so here goes....
A very wise woman once told me that relationships end at the same speed they start. If you go from hello to bed, it is likely your will go from bed to goodbye just as rapidly. I am sure that is what some want and that is fine.
If you desire one single person to become a friend before a lover, you are much more likely to find something that lasts longer. The word that comes to mind is respect.
Just my 2p.
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QuietLights - 06 Jul, 2023 - 09:04AM
If it was worth something for both of you ending it hurts - however plausible/genuine the reason or how sensible and kind to each other you might be.....
That's what relationships do to you....
(get a puppy.... 🤣🤣)
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MatureWorcsBBW - 04 Jul, 2023 - 06:25PM
I'd ask him (gently) why he was sooo needy.
I'd explain that us not being married means that I don't have to listen to his dreary work, car and football conversations, while his kid's current hobbies and academic achievements bore me.
I was joking!
Or was I?? 😂
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