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When should you end it?

So, you have been seeing your perfect affair partner for a few months and then you notice that what was once a steamy affair with both parties being really into it, is now just like your relationship with your OH with you trying your best to keep them interested and constantly wondering if you are actually ‘one of many’ after-all.

Yes, they show up for their ‘once per week’ as promised, but whereas before they would stay a while, they are out the door straight away due to ‘work commitments’!

Is now the time to part ways? This is exactly what is missing, necessitating the need for an affair in the first place!

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Enigma.. - 28 Jun, 2023 - 07:48AM

Just a wee idea….

Why not get out of the bed first.
Make up some reason to leave… Darn it I’m late for my next Ie date.. lol.
Quickly have a wash and make up repair.
Hurriedly get dressed and leave.
Bet his face would be a picture 😂😉.

And before certain sarcastic sources kick in…. I was joking 😏.

Or was I 🤔😏😉.

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masterbatesalot - 27 Jun, 2023 - 05:19PM

I have dealt with both wet and dry cracks, talking of course of walls and the need for plastering, but experiencing a dry crack is a sure fire sign that you are not providing what is required.

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masterbatesalot - 27 Jun, 2023 - 04:08PM

I got to start one first and then I may have some advice to give.

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Bobby224 - 26 Jun, 2023 - 06:35PM

Paula99

Thank you for your positive comments. You are exactly right about the dynamic of a LT affair and to be honest that’s all I’m looking for. Not all men want to bed hop. I really enjoyed the friendship and being her confident and her mine. Obviously I enjoy the physical side too. Tha physical side is always better if you do have that connection and deep friendship and respect. 5 years is a terrific long affair. That must of been special to you. I hope it ended amicably and you have positive thoughts and memories.

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ExoticOrchid - 26 Jun, 2023 - 02:54PM

P99/TBH

They do say time flies when you're enjoying yourself ... ;-)

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Pink Eiga - 26 Jun, 2023 - 02:46PM

Paula99 - 26 Jun, 2023 - 01:39PM

Indeed, where does the time go?!

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Paula99 - 26 Jun, 2023 - 01:39PM

Bobby224…

It is common to have more of a closer relationship with your IE ..in terms of being able to converse about every tiny detail in your lives ..communication is the key to longevity of an affair ..I have had a couple of long term affairs 5 years was one and I am not really sure where the time went ..there is a different dynamic with a LT relationship you become friends ..lovers and confidants ..
You have clearly had a fantastic affair and you both put the extra 10 % that is needed..

I hope you find your new IE …🥰

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Kiss_Lover - 26 Jun, 2023 - 11:11AM

End it mutually, like adults and thank each other for the company. … then start looking again.

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laugar164 - 26 Jun, 2023 - 11:05AM

I had an affair for over 5 years not from this site
I definitely say it was long term
Definitely been as time goes on as you get to know each other better and better.

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Enigma.. - 26 Jun, 2023 - 06:44AM

I’ve had two wonderful affairs from the site.

The first lasted a year. The second about 7 months.

I’d say they were both “long term”.

I had another affair, not from this site, that lasted over three years.


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