When should you end it?
So, you have been seeing your perfect affair partner for a few months and then you notice that what was once a steamy affair with both parties being really into it, is now just like your relationship with your OH with you trying your best to keep them interested and constantly wondering if you are actually ‘one of many’ after-all.
Yes, they show up for their ‘once per week’ as promised, but whereas before they would stay a while, they are out the door straight away due to ‘work commitments’!
Is now the time to part ways? This is exactly what is missing, necessitating the need for an affair in the first place!
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Funguy77 - 23 Aug, 2023 - 04:29PM
@ ExoticOrchid - 23 Aug, 2023 - 04:18PM
Yes as I don’t fancy anyone at work lol
It’s been 14 years give us a break 😗
ExoticOrchid - 23 Aug, 2023 - 04:19PM
TheBoredHousewife - 23 Aug, 2023 - 04:07PM
He says a lot of things I reckon!
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ExoticOrchid - 23 Aug, 2023 - 04:18PM
Funguy77 - 23 Aug, 2023 - 03:56PM
"we ran off together and got married 😃 xx"
So good you are now on an adultery site looking for another affair???
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Funguy77 - 23 Aug, 2023 - 04:13PM
@ TheBoredHousewife - 23 Aug, 2023 - 04:07PM
About 20 years I would say . I never have my correct DOB on there’s things. Iv only had 4 in all that time and I ran off with my now wife lol not advocating it but it has made my sex life more intense but each to there own . I still talk to three of them including my ex wife x
Pink Eiga - 23 Aug, 2023 - 04:07PM
Funguy77 - 23 Aug, 2023 - 03:56PM
Are you saying you’ve been having affairs since age 18?
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boav91 - 23 Aug, 2023 - 03:57PM
By the way there is evidence to show that longer gaps can build anticipation and keep that excitement going whereas regular meets just become another routine eventually. Can't believe I am advocating for less not more :(
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Funguy77 - 23 Aug, 2023 - 03:56PM
Some of these comments make it sound boring and routine. Spontaneity is part of the appeal. 27 years on and off having life enhancing affairs I don’t regret any one of them we ran off together and got married 😃 xx
boav91 - 23 Aug, 2023 - 03:55PM
Mine ended when they moved 3000 miles away. I hope it was not something I said :O. They were living here for a while from the US and moved back home.
Fortunately we never met up where there was a kitchen and I dont think we know each others address which is weird but reading the comment good too. I guess but then at least no bunnies in pots!!!
WE both knew the situation and our wider lives and could be open. The problem is always knowing what you actually want from this and both be honest about what you are getting. If it does not meet both peoples needs then it needs to end. I am back here because my water legs are not good at crossing 3000 miles of ocean.
It ended due to distance not lack of trust or desire so I would still trust them to be discreet as I would hope. would be too.
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JamesJack - 23 Aug, 2023 - 03:47PM
If ‘ a steamy affair with both parties being really into it’ is what you want, and it ceases to be that, and you have checked in with your affair and there aren’t any circumstances that may be precluding their involvement, then I would suggest it is time up.
You can’t keep a kettle on the boil for ever…. Maybe once per week is just too much routine? Maybe neither of you are hungry enough to keep eating from the same menu? In any case, move on. You already have one partner that you are carrying this feeling with.
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1617335 - 23 Aug, 2023 - 02:49PM
You should be open as you can and end it if it just becomes a routine shag - not worth the risk for something that just a bodily function.
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